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The Benefits of Gratitude and Learning How to Be Grateful

2024-11-29T06:33:45+00:00November 28th, 2024|Anxiety, Depression, Featured, Spiritual Development, Thankful|

One of the most famous lines in cinema history comes from the movie Forest Gump. While sitting at a bus stop and engaging in conversation with various people, the eponymous character says the iconic words, “Life is like a box of chocolates; you never know what you’re gonna get”. Life is indeed something of a mixed bag; you never know what each day or moment may bring. When life roughs you up, one of the first things to remember is that you do have a choice in how you respond to it. You aren’t helpless and your responses to the situation aren’t predetermined. You can decide how to respond to a given situation, and you can choose what mindset to adopt as you face challenges. That doesn’t mean pretending a tough situation isn’t tough, but it might mean adopting a healthy mindset toward that situation. Being grateful and maintaining a mindset of gratitude can help you tackle the various challenges life throws at you. There are many benefits of gratitude which this article will explore. What Is Gratitude? The word “gratitude” comes from the Latin word gratia. Depending on the context in which that word is used, it can mean grace, graciousness, or gratefulness. Gratitude often encompasses all these varied meanings because it is a thankful appreciation for what you’ve received that has enriched your life. The things that have enriched your life could include tangible things like the home you own, or the resources at your disposal, but it can also refer to the intangible things like your health and the rich relationships that are part of your life. When you express gratitude, you acknowledge the goodness in your life, and that often leads you to recognize that the source of that goodness lies at least partially outside yourself. Being [...]

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8 Tips for Relieving Mental Stress

2024-11-05T06:17:11+00:00October 28th, 2024|Coaching, Depression, Family Counseling, Featured, Individual Counseling|

Mental stress is draining and can lead to physiological issues, such as headaches, digestive problems, and chest tightness or pain. The emotional issues that can sprout from mental stress include anxiety, depression, and panic attacks. The good news is that once you understand the causes and types of mental stress, you can find ways to relieve it and get back to feeling more like yourself. What is Mental Stress? Stress is a natural reaction to a threat or concern. Stress activates the fight, flight, or freeze response to protect us from a predator or a situation that could hurt us. Unfortunately, the brain can translate uncomfortable situations, locations, or people as threats. It can take our worries and fears and blow them out of proportion. The resulting mental stress takes a toll on the body, mind, and spirit. The Causes of Mental Stress The causes of mental stress vary. Each person carries stress differently, and what may impact one person a little may cause a panic attack in another. There are countless contributors to mental stress, and it can vary where the pressure is coming from. Many people worry about things that are outside their control. Others feel overwhelmed by too much pressure or responsibility. Changes, both positive and negative, can be stressful, like a new baby or a job loss. Financial strains, academic pressures, workplace stress, and family demands all contribute to mental stress. Certainly, relationships that are in crisis can elevate stress levels, whether it is estrangement from a loved one, the impact of a chronic illness, or the grief of loss. Major Types of Stress There are two major types of stress. The first is acute stress, and almost everyone experiences it at least once during their lifetime. Connected to this type of stress is episodic acute [...]

The Importance of Estate Planning

2024-10-25T07:03:59+00:00July 26th, 2024|Family Counseling, Featured, Group Counseling, Spiritual Development|

The latter portions of your life can be a mixed bag of experiences. After decades of hard work, you may be retired and resting on your laurels. You may have an active and present role in your children's and grandchildren’s lives. Or perhaps you have chosen to settle in a new place altogether. Regardless of where you have settled for your twilight years, it is essential to have plans for your eventual death. A good person leaves an inheritance for their children’s children. - Proverbs 13:22a, NIV Taking the time now to plan for the end of your life and what happens afterward will save your grieving loved ones from significant trouble. Anyone who has dealt with the care of aged parents knows that many things need to be handled. There are legal, medical, and financial decisions that need to be made. Having as much taken care of ahead of time will prevent heartache and misunderstandings. Wealth Then Joshua dismissed the people, each to their own inheritance. After these things, Joshua son of Nun, the servant of the Lord, died at the age of a hundred and ten. And they buried him in the land of his inheritance, at Timnath Serah in the hill country of Ephraim, north of Mount Gaash. – Joshua 24:28-30, NIV The big question in any rich person's murder mystery is always “Who benefits?” However, it is probably best to leave that kind of drama to the silver screen. For the sake of everyone, make things clear. You should have a will in place to determine what happens to your wealth. In addition to real estate and bank accounts, having clear instructions for jewelry and family heirlooms may be helpful. Initiate conversations with your children and grandchildren about heirlooms. There may be things you own that [...]

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