Kate Motaung

About Kate Motaung

Kate Motaung is the Senior Writer, Editor, and Content Manager for a multi-state company. She is the author of several books including Letters to Grief, 101 Prayers for Comfort in Difficult Times, and A Place to Land: A Story of Longing and Belonging. Kate is also the host of Five Minute Friday, an online writing community that equips and encourages Christian writers, and the owner of Refine Services, a company that offers editing services. She and her South African husband have three young adult children and currently live in West Michigan. Find Kate’s books at katemotaung.com/books.

Family Support Makes for a Stronger Loving Family

2025-02-27T08:51:19+00:00February 27th, 2025|Couples Counseling, Family Counseling, Featured, Relationship Issues|

A place where all family members flourish and fulfill their potential is one way to describe a family characterized by a strong, stable, and loving family network. Strong families help children feel safe and secure, and these are characterized by warmth, care, clear communication, predictability, and good relationships that expand to others outside the family. It is also a place where the adults actively invest in ways to look after themselves too. One of the many benefits of living in an environment where you experience family support is that children have a safe and secure place to be the person God made them to be. They have the confidence to learn, explore the world around them, and experiment with new things. By being open to learning by doing, a child’s confidence increases, and he or she is better able to deal with the consequences of failing and making mistakes because he or she knows the family support is unwavering. As a parent, your warmth, care, and affection, expressed to your child helps to build strong family relationships. The way parents show interest and delight in their children and their activities is called positive attention and is extremely effective in building the connection between parent and child and showing the child that the parent is available whenever the child needs him or her. How to build positive relationships Every parent wants their relationships with their child characterized by warmth, care, and positive attention. Ways to do this are by expressing your love and affection to your children with the words you choose to use. Tell your child how much you love him or her, and always be on the lookout for opportunities to tell him or her how proud you are of them. Eye contact is very important for children. [...]

The Importance of Estate Planning

2025-01-08T10:39:51+00:00July 26th, 2024|Family Counseling, Featured, Group Counseling, Spiritual Development|

The latter portions of your life can be a mixed bag of experiences. After decades of hard work, you may be retired and resting on your laurels. You may have an active and present role in your children's and grandchildren’s lives. Or perhaps you have chosen to settle in a new place altogether. Regardless of where you have settled for your twilight years, it is essential to have plans for your eventual death. A good person leaves an inheritance for their children’s children. - Proverbs 13:22a, NIV Taking the time now to plan for the end of your life and what happens afterward will save your grieving loved ones from significant trouble. Anyone who has dealt with the care of aged parents knows that many things need to be handled. There are legal, medical, and financial decisions that need to be made. Having as much taken care of ahead of time will prevent heartache and misunderstandings. Wealth Then Joshua dismissed the people, each to their own inheritance. After these things, Joshua son of Nun, the servant of the Lord, died at the age of a hundred and ten. And they buried him in the land of his inheritance, at Timnath Serah in the hill country of Ephraim, north of Mount Gaash. – Joshua 24:28-30, NIV The big question in any rich person's murder mystery is always “Who benefits?” However, it is probably best to leave that kind of drama to the silver screen. For the sake of everyone, make things clear. You should have a will in place to determine what happens to your wealth. In addition to real estate and bank accounts, having clear instructions for jewelry and family heirlooms may be helpful. Initiate conversations with your children and grandchildren about heirlooms. There may be things you own that [...]

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